It would help if you did some things while your girlfriend is away somewhere, reading this article is one of them. If your girlfriend finds out or sees you reading this article, we shall pray for your happy life. Handling a girlfriend is itself a considerable task, and if you have a bossy girlfriend, then God has mercy on you. This article is not a solution for your bossy girlfriend; believe me, there is no solution to it. This article is more of a precautionary measure that you could take in those situations.
Dominant Girlfriend can be a Problem, Here’s the Way out!
1. Try to handle your Bossy Girlfriend by “Keeping your Head Cool!”
Being bossed around by someone is always very irritating, but it’s your girlfriend, so you need to stay calm. When she is yelling at the top of her voice for some reason that you don’t know, keep your head cool and give her a sarcastic answer with a smile on your lips. It will help you deal with her in a better way rather than yelling back at her. If you react, it will only worsen the situation.
Here’s an example for you: If your girlfriend tells you that you are not taking care of her, ask her to define what care is first. When she is yelling at the breakfast table over something, thank her for breakfast and let her know that you would be late for dinner before leaving. These small things do make a difference.
2. Try the Trick of “Pleasing her and being Romantic”
Having a bossy girlfriend could be a challenging job for many, but if you keep her happy, then your life might get a bit better. Buy her some flowers. When she is upset, take her to some candlelight dinners and have an excellent romantic chat. Once in a while, give her what she wants and fulfill her requirements. But after providing everything you can, she is still not satisfied, and if she always keeps on bragging and nagging about stuff beyond your reach, I would say it is a dangerous sign, dump her and run away from her as fast as you can.
Don’t feel guilty for leaving her; it’s better than putting up with her unnecessary crap. You also need to please, at a romantic level, take her out on dates or try giving her gifts and flowers. These small things will indeed have a significant impact on your relationship life. However, this should be done to a certain extent; if it exceeds that extent, be careful to get used.
3. Learn to “Empathize with her Feelings”
Reacting to her bossy behavior will do no good to you and your relationship. The last thing you want to do to your bossy girlfriend is getting her pissed. Your girlfriend wants to know you are on her team and looking to understand her point of view. She seriously wants to know you’re making a real effort to connect with her emotionally and understand her.
When your girlfriend is happy with her relationship, it becomes easier for the guy to understand her negative emotions. It’s about making an effort; you don’t have to be perfect to make your girl happy.
When your girl gets mad, you need to give her the feeling that you understand her emotions and then make a real effort to relate to her issues. This will make you move closer to your girlfriend. You will screw up if you ignore the fact she is upset. It would help if you were very attentive when your bossy girlfriend explained something to you in anger. Otherwise, it won’t be good for you, leave all the work and open your ears to listen to her.
4. Tackle your Bossy Girlfriend by “Never Saying her to not get Angry”
If you are trying to tell your girlfriend not to be angry and grumpy, you will waste your time. If she is mad, she is furious. You can do nothing but say sorry to her if it’s your fault, and if it is not your fault, then obviously it is still you who is saying sorry.
You can do one thing to make her less angry in the future; you can make a guilt trap. Not many might be knowing this, but almost everyone has tried it once. It is something like this, tell her something like, “I thought you were a sweet person to be in a relationship with, but. I was wrong.” Then leave her alone and get back to your work. This will make your girl feel guilty without losing your dignity. After sometimes she will come to you and apologize for being so rude to you. After all, you had the guts to tell her she is overdramatic for no reason. You have control over her now, not for very long, though.
I wish you could conclude this article without getting caught by your BOSSY girlfriend. Also, make sure to remove it from your history just in case she checks your phone. Once again, I would like to state that the above steps are all precautionary methods and not solutions. Corona virus’s solution has been invented, but I don’t think scientists can find a solution for this. So “stay QUIET, stay SAFE.”